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The Cantor's Voice August 1999
I was tuned in to KABC 790 recently and Dennis Prager was interviewing a close friend who was relating a story that a flight attendant told him about a recent flight (talk about 6 degrees of separation!). Apparently many passengers were pushing their call buttons in a frantic attempt to beckon the flight attendant. When she arrived at the section of the disturbance, the attendant couldn't believe her eyes. A woman was breast feeding. Her kitten. Yes, her kitten. The flight attendant was startled, and asked the woman to put her kitten back in its cage. The woman refused. Finally the pilot had to ask the woman to put the kitten back. The woman still refused. The pilot threatened the woman with arrest upon landing if she didn't comply. Only then did the woman comply.
Okay, so tell me -- what is wrong with this scene? The cat isn't in any danger. The woman isn't in any danger. No one is getting hurt. Were the other passengers simply being prude? Why is this wrong? I suppose in our mixed up world nothing is wrong anymore. It isn't wrong to breast-feed a kitten in public. It isn't wrong to pierce our tongues. It isn't wrong to run naked on a university campus. And it isn't wrong to have a co-ed bathroom in a college dormitory (something a college-attending member of our congregation just revealed to me)...ala Ally McBeal. WAIT A MINUTE. Our religion doesn't simply demand that we Jews do the right thing, but that we Jews also do the holy thing. Kadosh. Holy. Separate. Distinct. Different. If God wants us to behave in a holy way, because God is holy, then it is okay to tell our kids that they can't have something or do something or be something because Jews aren't supposed to do unholy things. Yes, it says so in the Torah. It tells us to separate good and evil. It tells us to distinguish between right and wrong. It commands us to differentiate between life and death, men and women, linen and wool (another time) and strong and weak. It also says something about milk and meat -- I think you probably knew that one! So many people act like animals. This is nothing new. That is why the Torah has so many laws about the things that we share most with animals: eating and sexuality. Animals eat. Animals have sexual relations. We as Jews can elevate these activities by performing them in holy ways. For that matter, we can elevate just about anything by doing it in a holy way.
If we are serious about being Jews, which I know most of you are, then we must be serious about the standards which our tradition has set for us. And that means taking an unpopular position, at times, with our children. Or our friends. Or our colleagues. Let us be a light unto the nations. It is not easy, and at times it seems impossible. But it can be done.
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